Saturday, February 12, 2011

Off for the weekend.

We are so excited about having the weekend off. It is supposed to be BEAUTIFUL! Hope that holds out. Mark is so ready to get out of the house, go for a drive, and soak up some sunshine. If it were only just a hair warmer, he would probably have the jeep out for the drive. (I don't count that out yet!) Dr. Diaz finished up a week here on Friday. About midweek, he decided he would like to stay longer with Mark. He sent for his family from New Mexico so that he could spend time with them over the weekend. They have travelled to Dallas to worship at a church there on Saturday and then possibly attend with Aunt Judy and Uncle Donny on Sunday. He actually made a special trip back to Scotland on the way to Dallas to meet us. I was with Abby at a basketball game, but several of Marks family were here and got to meet his wife and 5 young children. We can't thank them enough for the sacrifice they have made in sharing him with us during this time.

Dr Diaz left instructions for the weekend, mostly in the way of diet and supplements. Mark will rest from all "physical" treatments over the weekend. I have to tell you all what an AMAZING man Mark is. I think it is really important to let you all know how very sick he is, and yet, if you saw him, you might not realize the magnitude of it. In fact, if it weren't for his color, I would speculate that you would have no idea what was happening inside of his body. The picture on paper is far different from what we see in him in person. I promise that it is God's work that is giving us each day with him. A friend asked me yesterday, "How do you explain him feeling better, and being able to get out...and DRIVE!" He is a fighter, and he has gone many, many rounds, not just in the last two years, but throughout his lifetime, but most importantly, he has the best man in his corner! Each day He gives us is truly a gift, I can "Only Hope" and pray for lots and lots more gifts. Coincidentally, that is the song Abby is singing today, "Only Hope". It comes from the movie "A Walk to Remember". I watched it with the kids last night. Abby sings the song beautifully, but she had never seen what the song was really about. Let me just say it had been quite some time since I had seen the movie, and I didn't even remember what the song was about! Consequently, I bawled through much of the movie! It was good for me though. It reminded me that sometimes, "miracles don't come in the form that we want them to." Sometimes miracles happen when we don't even realize it. While saying, (or typing in this case) those words is barely possible for me, accepting them seems almost intangible right now. And so, I will keep asking, and praying, and begging for a healing miracle in Mark.

I can't thank everyone enough for all that you have done for us. The magnitude of people praying for him is a constant inspiration to us. So many people asking for a renewal of his health. I just wish I knew what the secret was - how God chooses those he is going to heal. And in the bible, it was so fast. He said to rise up and walk, and it happened; he laid his hands, and they were healed. So I have faith that in the blink of an eye, if He chooses, it can happen!

Mark is feeling fair. He is not having pain, but is very tired and tolerates very little physical activity. He is eating well and does not suffer with nausea or vomiting. His digestion is about as good as it has been since his bowel surgery in January of 2010. He is able to visit and is likely to have something witty to say make you laugh. He is an inspiration.

Many of you ask about the kids. They are doing really well. We are very open with the kids. They know how sick he is and they know that he will only be healed through God. They are very receptive and responsive with Dr. Diaz and he includes them daily. They respond fairly well to the ever-changing agenda in our home. In our busy world, they have definitely been trained to "go with the flow". That is definitely a challenge for them sometimes, but they really try hard to make it all work, and I really try hard to let them be kids!

We love you all, Missy

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

I am so happy to hear Dr. Diaz is staying. What a blessing!! Please tell him Thank You for us. And if we can help him in any way, please let us know.

I've heard Abby practice her song at home. She's awesome. I know she will do great. No dry eyes in church today.

God Bless!! Love to Mark and family.

Donna

Anonymous said...

Born to Climb
Oh the mountain is high
And the road up the side is much steeper than you thought it'd be
You're out of breath and scared half to death
You won't have the faith to believe
But grace, sweet grace has strengthened you time after time
So don't be afraid of the mountain
Cause brother, you were born to climb
Lil Sis

Will B said...

Love you guys! Praying for all of you. I wish I could hear Abby singing. I'm sure it is wonderful. Give the kids and your self a hug. And give Mark an extra long one and tell him it's from me to make sure it makes he feel uncomfortable. ;) Signing off from MN.

Anonymous said...

xxoo
With love, in prayer

Anonymous said...

GLAD TO READ THE JOY IN YOUR VOICE. THIS IS TOTALLY WAY COOL! WORKED THE POT SHOP TODAY, AFTER I CLOSED UP SHOP, I WAS ON MY WAY OUT TO SEE YOU. BUT FOR SOME REASON
I DECIDED TO STOP BY THE HOUSE FIRST, A N D BOY WAS I G L A D. I FOUND, AS I OPENED THE BACK DOOR,
THAT THE HOT WATER HEATER
"HAD GONE ON STRIKE !!" THE KNOBS WERE SOOOOOOO HARD TO TURN, SO BY THE TIME THE WATER GOT SHUT OFF & THE MESS CLEANED UP I WAS ANXIOUS TO SEE JUST H O W OLD THAT THING WAS. THE TAG SAID----FEB/1980 !!!
THAT THING IS 31 YRS OLD !!!
OH !!! BY THE WAY CONGRATS TO BECOMING A NEWER AUNT & UNCLE !
SO HAPPY FOR ALL OF YOU.
GLAD MARK'S WEEKEND IS SO NICE.
HOPE YOU FIND MUCH JOY IN YOUR DAY.
AS ALWAYS, MY LOVE & PRAYERS,
auntie n

Anonymous said...

You have beautiful children and I am so happy to know that Mr. Brown is still up and around. God bless you all. Always in my heart
Sandy C